When You're Attracted to Someone Else


You're in a committed, monogamous, long-term relationship...and you start to feel attracted to someone else. Perhaps even fantasizing about them. You feel guilty, ashamed, and afraid of what might happen or who might get hurt.

This is normal. You're normal. It's completely ok to feel attracted to someone outside your relationship. It's incredibly human and incredibly real. Attraction can be potent and clarifying. It's also an opportunity to contact your longing and see what it has to say. Are there things you're longing for in your relationship that you had no idea about? Or that seem impossible? Consider that they're only impossible as long as you don't know you want them or are too afraid to ask for them.

Your longing is powerful. Maybe even powerful enough to create or inspire that which you long for. If you listen.

What are you longing for? Leave me a comment and let me know.